Do You Ask Girls - Can I Buy You Lunch?
How do you ask out a girl?
Do you say something like.... "Can I buy you lunch?"
If so, it's time for a (minor) adjustment.
See it's those small ways you say and do things that can turn a woman ON or completely off.
How? Let me explain.
See, when you say "Can I buy you lunch?" - - using the word "Can" is what I call.... "weak speech"
Her response, if she's a smart a-ss like me would be.... "Can you? I don't know.. Can you buy me lunch?"
Now of course I'm not going to say this to his face, because I like helping people out, I know how asking a girl out can make a guy nervous - and I try to make people's lives easier and happier - - BUT in my joking around mind, this is what I'm thinking.
The word "CAN" is a turn off.
It shows the guy is insecure. Unsure. Nervous. and therefore the opposite of everything I and many other women are looking for...A Confident Guy. A guy's who's sure of himself and a guy who knows what he wants...and that of course, is ME :-)
Call it logistics. Call it stupid or retarded, but it does matter and it does make a difference.
A better way to go about asking a girl out or going to pick up her tab (which is where I got this inspiration for this...when I was in Florida a guy had asked me this very question when he was trying to buy me lunch)...
So the better way to go about asking a girl out is to
1. Say "Let me take you out to lunch _________ (someday, tomorrow, today)"
See, it's confident. Sure and says to the girl you know what you want and you're going to get it. Ohh yea...you go boy!
or
2. If you see a girl that you like while you're out in a restaurant or coffee shop and you want to pay for her lunch or get her coffee just say "Let me get that for you" with a smile on your face as you grab for the check.
Now that's class.
I'm getting all turned on just thinking about it.
That's who a true MAN does it.
Work it!
Sure it's part pushy and part c-ckiness, I guess... but it works and it's sxy as h-ll.
You go boy
Do your thing!
Wishing you the best in love,
Blaire Allison
The Love Guru
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